Monday, July 16, 2012

The Kid Corner (by Abi)

In this picture Daddy is giving us horsey rides.  A couple minutes after this picture, Anna and I fell off laughing.

We love our new brother.  He is so cute!!  Sometimes, we play with him under his gym and give him kissues and hugs.  Isaiah seems to like us too.  Sometimes, he kisses us back and will even smile at us.

We also like to help Mama push him in the stroller when we go for walks.  When my cousin Elie comes over she likes to help too.

Daddy gives me airplane rides sometimes.


Degree Completion


Most of you know that one of the primary reasons I took the Camp Manager position at Youthfront was to complete my Masters. As of the end of May, I have my Masters in Biblical and Pastoral Studies from Bethlehem College and Seminary (BCS) in Minneapolis.

The degree came a bit unexpectedly. BCS has been in the process of becoming accredited over the last several years. This year, they were given rights to grant the degree from the Minnesota board of Higher Education. Students who had a certain GPA and completed a certain number of hours at BCS were allowed to receive the degree on the basis of their work (even though the classes were taken 5 years ago). After much prayer and consideration, I decided to accept the degree.

Please pray for us as we discover what the accomplishment of this goal means for us and our future.

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

Some Sights and Sounds of Camp

The sounds of camp are many: the gush of water crashing at the bottom of the water-slide, the low growl of distant ATV rides, kids laughing and singing, a basketball bouncing, kitchen pans clanging, the dish machine’s high pressure water spray, mowers, and pool pumps, the rhythmic beat of a drum paired with a well played guitar, voices of worship leaders, and words from a speaker. As long as I live, I will always associate those things with camp. 

My favorite part of camp, the part which seems to be the most beneficial to our students, is the relationships and discussions they have with their cabin leader and peers. You can see and hear them happen every day here. In fact, the way we structure camp is designed much around creating an environment that is conducive for spiritual growth. We do this by blending relational discipleship, community spiritual formation, and the proclamation of Scripture. 

We have the special privilege and responsibility of presenting God to them in a way that they understand. Then, we get to help them process what the reality of God means for them individually and as a community. Kids get to wrestle with questions, appropriate Scripture to their lives, and see it lived out in the lives of our summer staff as they love and serve one another in community.

Here are some more sights and sounds of camp:


WORK WEEK

Vacuums in an empty dining hall: Before camp got started there was a lot of cleaning to do.    This normally happens during what we call "work week."  It is one of the final weeks before camp starts.  We get a lot of volunteers to come down and help us get ready.

An Empty Swimming Pool:  Before campers came this year, we repainted the pool with the help of some volunteers.

A Blob floating in the middle of the lake:  Every off season we pull our exciting water activity out of the water to have holes patched and annual service done.  In the spring, we put it back in right before camp starts.


More volunteer help:  This year Anthony Heating and Plumbing came down and helped us service every one of our air conditioners.  We are so grateful!  We could not do camp like we do it, without volunteers like this.

 SUMMER STAFF ORIENTATION 

Summer Staff arrive:  After work week, the rest of the summer staff arrive.  The Dining Hall turns into a noisy, fun place filled with college students from surrounding areas.  We have staff from MU, KU, K-State, Miami of Ohio, MNU, and many others.

Ropes Course Repairs:  Right around the time that summer staff arrive, I had to do some repairs on the ropes course.    in this case, I installed a new strand-vise to our two-line bridge.  

Mini-excavator rumbles:  Right before the first day of camp, we had an in-ground water line break.   So, semi-frantically we rented some equipment and dug up the ground to repair it.


 CAMPERS ARRIVE 

A filled Chapel:  Finally campers arrived.  Our chapel is very full when they gather in there every night to sing, and listen to the speaker for the week.
More Volunteers:  After the first week of camp, we had a large crew of volunteers come in to help us paint our cabins.   WITC (What If The Church), a non-profit volunteer-recruiting organization, assembled well over 100 people to come out and help.  Paint was donated, and they brought their own ladders and sprayers.  It was an exciting day.   

Midnight Madness: One of the theme nights for Hype (our fun event time), is called "Midnight Madness".  Everyone wheres glow bracelets and necklaces, we blob at night, the waterside is lit up with neon lights, the disc golf baskets have lights in them.  We even have a neon-lit basket ball.

Water-slide Frogs: In the morning, this is a common sight on our waterside.  For some reason, like to hang out on our waterside.  Its actually a bit of a nuisance, but a good picture nonetheless. 

Shaving Cream wars: During our pre-adolescent weeks, we have shaving cream wars.  Its a favorite for our campers and cabin leaders.  If you have never tried this, you should!  (Just make sure you don't have the kind with aloe or menthol)  Afterwords, they get sprayed down with the fire hose.  

More Shaving Cream war.






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Monday, July 9, 2012

Joy, Fear, and Discovery: Emotions of a Growing Family



Joy: Our third child, Isaiah Jonathan was born on May 5th. He arrived a healthy 7 pounds, 11 ounces.  The labor was relatively easy (as far as I could tell). Isaiah came quickly once the heavy labor contractions started which allowed Amanda to deliver without an epidural. 

There was a lot of excitement in that room as my first boy was delivered. Instantly, life felt different. We were no longer a family with just daughters. Even speaking the words “my son” landed heavily on me.  When I walked back to the waiting room to get our girls, I said, “Abi and Anna, Isaiah came out of Mommy’s tummy! Do you want to see him?”  Ecstatic, they ran with me to meet, in person, their new baby brother. They had been very connected to Isaiah before he was born. At home, they were always interacting with Amanda’s tummy. They would talk to Isaiah, pray for him, sing to him, and hug and kiss him. But now he wasn’t in her tummy any more. The realization was fascinating and joy filled. 

Soon after, the rest of our family came in to see and celebrate our little Isaiah. There were so many happy noises: laughter, chatter, cooing and giggling. It was so fun to share this joy with our family.



Fear: After the birth, they moved us into another room for recovery. Amanda seemed to feel relieved that Isaiah was out and in our arms. Neither of us had any idea that in the next hour, Amanda’s life would be in jeopardy. There was peace and joy for a moment, but soon we would enter into the scariest moments of my entire life.

A nurse helped Amanda into the bathroom. Then suddenly, I heard her grab her phone and call the desk. “We have a bleeder!” she said franticly. Within seconds Amanda was back on the bed and about 8 other nurses and a doctor came into the room. They started pushing around on her tummy, kneading it like dough. Amanda was hemorrhaging (bleeding internally).

I did not understand what was going on at the time. All I knew was that Amanda was bleeding and they were having to do a lot of very painful things to her to make it stop. Kneeling there beside her bed, as I held her hand, I prayed to myself repeatedly, “God please don’t take my wife! Save her! Please, please, please!” I will spare you the details of the procedure itself. Suffice it to say, it was a very painful, emergency procedure done without any sort of anesthesia. After what felt like hours, they finally got the bleeding stopped. Amanda, had lost a lot of blood, but she was still here.

After the crowd of people left, I held Amanda and thanked God as we cried together. We were grateful she was still here and grateful for our new son. 



 
Discovery:
After a couple days in the hospital, we headed home. Amanda was sore, but it seemed like everyone was going to be healthy.

When we got home, the girls LOVED their baby brother. They were so fascinated by him. Abi wanted to feed him a bottle. Anna brought toys. They were discovering and re-discovering what it meant to have a a real baby in our family. They would lay by him, and stare at him for long periods. All those things they did to Amanda’s tummy prior to birth, they now wanted to do with him in their arms.

There were a lot of emotions surrounding the birth of Isaiah, and we’re thankful for them all. God has been gracious to us in granting us such a wonderful family.

I can’t help but think about God’s creative relationship with humans when I think about children. When God finished the work of creating people, he looked at his creation and “behold it was very good.” And when God brought Jesus into the world, there were hosts of angels announcing the good news that his son had arrived.